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When should you take a break? And how to do it without guilt

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TEREZ RIJKENBERG, MBA

Executive coach Terez Rijkenberg is an MBA graduate, author, speaker, and facilitator who blends productivity and mindset strategies to give busy executives simple ways to overcome procrastination and self-doubt. Terez is passionate about helping people achieve more success without all the stress so that they can create the ultimate life-work balance.

Taking a break is not a luxury you earn when you’ve achieved something. It’s a strategy that’s incorporated into HOW you achieve anything.

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Yes, taking a break is a necessity, not a luxury. 

But how do we create time for a break or to rest and recharge when there’s always so much to do?

And how do we enjoy that rest time without feeling guilty?

Here’s your answer:

Always plan your breaks and rest time!

There are two categories of rest time that we can plan for:

1) PLANNED BREAKS / REST 

E.g. lunch breaks; when you stop working at the end of the day; self-care; rest days from exercise etc.

Here are some questions to help you think about these intentional rest times:

  • When will you take breaks from work during the day? (Most people need a break every 50-90mins to avoid mental fatigue and to increase focus and creativity.)
  • When will you take a break for lunch/snacks? (Find ways to enjoy your meals with mindful eating.)
  • What time will you stop working?
  • When will you sleep and for how long?
  • What types of self-care / exercise will you schedule and how often? 
  • On which days will you take rest days from exercise?
  • How long will your breaks/rests be?
  • What will you “do” during your rest time? (Think about the activities that will most help you to replenish your mental and physical energy – tip: stay away from a screen during this time)
  • When will you plan longer breaks like holidays? (Planning holidays upfront can also create added motivation as it gives you something to look forward to.)

 

2) UNPLANNED BREAKS / REST

E.g. when you’re sick; when you feel tired; when you have a headache; when dealing with mental illness etc.

Here are some questions to help you think about how you might want to consider resting during these unplanned occurrences:

  • What will you do to rest when you haven’t had enough sleep?
  • What will you do to rest when you’re feeling high levels of stress?
  • What will you do to rest when you’re sick or recovering from an injury?
  • What will you do to rest when you feel tired? 
  • What will you do to rest when you feel pain (e.g. headache; body pain)?
  • What will you do to rest when you feel emotional pain (e.g. depression; grief etc)?

By working through your answers to these questions upfront, you’re deciding in advance what you will do that’s rational and focused on allowing you to recover and re-energise faster. 

It’s the activity of making these decisions in advance that will allow you to enjoy your rest without guilt.

Remember that taking a break is not quitting or being lazy, it’s an intentional strategy that gives you time to recharge so that you can keep moving forward with optimum energy.

 

TAKE ACTION:

  • Work through the questions above to decide what you will do for your planned rest times as well as unplanned times that require rest.
  • COACHING: If you continue to feel guilty when taking rest times or for prioritising your wellbeing, then book a free consultation with me here.

Your coach,

Terez

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Why not sign up for a FREE 30-min consultation with me. We will explore your goals, the obstacles that are currently getting in the way and how you can overcome them. It's easy once you have a strategy.

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